Because what we can mention we can master.
Better communication.
Better boundaries.
Better connection.
Have you ever been in an argument that you felt would be quick to resolve when you brought it up, but all of a sudden you’ve eaten dinner, done the dishes, and gotten ready for bed and it’s still going strong with both of you frustrated?
💡Imagine being able to move through discomfort faster because you know exactly how to get to the root of the conflict and move through it with greater ease.
Or maybe you’re single and work is where you throw a majority of your energy, but you semi feel like you might have to quit because you’re boss doesn’t see your value or your co-worker in the cubicle around the corner drives you crazy.
💡Imagine if they didn’t have that level of power over you or if you could ask for that raise and get it.
Or maybe you’re ridiculously successful but there’s a piece of you that feels disconnected and absent–like you’ve silenced a part of yourself.
💡Imagine waking back up to your most authentic self and finally feeling as successful as you look on paper.
This is the work that goes down inside Convey.
(and the work that takes your life from 'meh' to magical).
The fine print of being human is that…
99.9% of our problems boil down to communication.
Because everything is communication—our thoughts, emotions, feelings, ailments, body language, personal style, the words we say (and don’t say) to ourselves and others—it’s all communication.
And while you may have had people give you communication tips and scripts in the past, these are bandaids that only work for so long. To truly experience the ripple effects across relationships when you transform your communication, you have to get to the root cause of your beliefs and behaviors.
Understanding how your emotions, thoughts, feelings, attitude, and behavior are all communication allows you to navigate every aspect of your life with much greater clarity.
This struggle totally worthwhile work, is part of transforming our lives into the most meaningful of stories and waking up to our most authentic selves.
I'm aware communication isn't a particularly sexy word, but...
- 🔥 Intimacy-filled relationships
- 🔥 Fulfilling relationships with co-workers
- 🔥 Flourishing businesses
- 🔥 Being your authentic self
are sexy as hell and they all stem from communication.
Except we aren't taught how to communicate effectively.
We learn “Language Arts” in school, but we aren’t taught the art and nuance of communication—how to recognize and articulate our emotions, how to be vulnerable, how to listen effectively, how to tame our not-so-nice inner self-talk—so we’re left flailing our way through complex conversations full of invisible baggage and hidden emotions.
Until now.
When we (un)learn the ways we’ve been programmed to communicate, learn new patterns, and put them into practice daily, possibility opens up. We’re able to get in touch with emotions, recognize earlier when we’re off track, and get back on faster.
The Convey Collective is your GATEWAY to clarity, CHOICE, and COMPASSION in every conversation.
“Alyssa is the most masterful and intuitive coach I’ve ever worked with.
Working with her my breakthroughs have come as if through the back door, so gentle, so familiar.
As a coach myself I often marveled at Alyssa’s ability ask such brilliant questions that lead right to the heart of what’s going on. She is a rare gem in that her strategy is not an isolated approach, but a fully integrated approach to the whole person.
She does not rely upon formulas or cookie-cutter answers. She is able to hold the complexities and nuances of a whole person and gently lead her clients back to their own wisdom.
In this day and age, where business is no longer business as usual, and people are craving a more conscious and integrated experience in their life, love and business, Alyssa has the ability to meet people at the intersections of their life and support their journey to next-level success and thriving.
MORGAN DAY CECIL Embodiment Coach & Creator of The Feminine Wholeness Method™
ALLOW ME TO QUICKLY INTRODUCE...
My ABC framework for bringing your full self to the table.
AWARENESS
BELIEFS
CURIOSITY
ALIGNMENT
BOUNDARIES
CONVERSATION
ACTION
BEHAVIOR
CONNECTION
AWARENESS
ALIGNMENT
ACTION
BEHAVIOR
BELIEFS
BOUNDARIES
CURIOSITY
CONVERSATION
CONNECTION
You’ll learn exactly how to work with this along with my framework for flourishing inside the collective.
Master the Fine Art of Communication
(and watch people drink up your words like a fine wine).
When you MASTER YOUR COMMUNICATION you ALSO:
- Expand your influence
- Increase your choice (and choice = freedom)
- Navigate conflict without second guessing yourself
- Ask for what you want without feeling guilty
- Set boundaries without feeling like a dick
- Express yourself authentically and unabashedly (aka you gain a new sense of comfort speaking your mind)
- Get your point across without being thrust into flight, fight, or freeze
- Maintain calm even in the toughest of conversations (asking for that raise becomes a hell of a lot easier)
"When you find your voice, you find your freedom."
-I'LL SING THIS TO YOU UNTIL THE COWS COME HOME 🐮
“I finally have a clear message and even more important, I know WHY I want to do the work I do.
Alyssa kept me moving forward week after week and helped me expose beliefs I had no idea I was carrying around. Once cleared, I was free to expand in entirely new ways. I felt like I was being held accountable by a caring mentor who had my back through it all.”
BRITNI ROSS Money Behavior Expert and Financial Coach
TOPICS ON DECK
- The Art of the Ask
- Boundary basics
- Cultivating resolve
- Trusting yourself
- How to listen effectively
- How to see through their pain and get to the heart of the matter
- How to give feedback that people are willing to listen to
- Why your body is an excellent communicator
- What your emotions are trying to tell you
- How to work through a values conflict
- The Dragon and other parts of ourselves we unconsciously silence
- The unconscious dynamics underlying every conversation
- Establishing trust
- Getting vulnerable
- Navigating feelings and sitting in discomfort
- Dissolving the charge of conversations
- And so much more…
This is holistic because you're not grain, you're not meant to live in a silo. When we attempt to exist in a silo we die.
(And while that may sound dramatic, it doesn't change the fact that it's true).
HOW YOU'RE SUPPORTED INSIDE CONVEY
Through our four gatherings a month (that’s 48 connection-inducing experiences a year), you’ll learn and practice the skills needed to turn up the heat on your moxie and your magic as you become a communication maven (or ninja…whichever feels more like you).
Monthly Perspective + Training
Shake up old patterns and transform how you think to promote more possibility. You'll learn the skills we weren't taught in school that lead to significant changes and remarkable ripple effects across relationships.
Member-Only Workshops
Because we've all skipped over exercises in self-help books, these workshops are designed to help you implement and integrate the content with LIVE support so you can practice new ways of communicating with yourself and others and see yourself in new ways.
Hot-Seat Style Coaching Sessions
Every month you'll have the opportunity to be coached live. You take the hot-seat, share what's alive for you, and get coached. I adore working with people in this way and because of the tools I bake in breakthroughs become possible in a matter of minutes. And, I always hear how much people learn from others getting coached when they're in the hot-seat, too.
Resources + Recordings
You'll receive any relevant resources based on each month's topic and focus. You'll also have access to easy-to-implement exercises that make integrating the tools, skills, and concepts into a daily practice simple within our collective hub and app.
Q & A Sessions
You'll be able to bring your burning questions to any of our gatherings.
Behind-the-tools with me
An honest and vulnerable look into how I use the practices and what I’m experimenting with in my own life. Many people avoid talking about how their tools are working for them or how difficult it can be to remember to use our own tools when we’re in the thick of something. I’m working to sustain flourishing right alongside you. I’ll be the first to admit sometimes it’s messy and I’ll share honestly about what’s working and what’s not for me behind the scenes in each area of life.
What you WON'T FIND INSIDE CONVEY
Things I intentionally left out of the collective...
- A vault of everything I’ve ever created because that’s overwhelming and leads to more distraction.
- Hours of calls where you’re just passively listening because I believe in living a life off mute, so the experiences I design are intended to foster you using your voice too.
- Hours of videos to watch on your own because I hate that and so I refuse to subject you to that either. Plus, I’m willing to bet you spend enough time in your head. We’re going for practical wisdom, experiencing the concepts in connection with others, and support all along the way.
- I’ll never throw a PDF at you leaving you to figure out what to do with it on your own because that’s how our downloads list ends up reading longer than a CVS receipt and digital clutter gives me anxiety.
- Prescribed actions. I’ll provide plenty of suggestions and on the coaching calls we will target ones specific to you, but I believe adults need choice not homework so the structure of Convey is always intended to support your autonomy, agency, and self-mastery.
My intention is for this to fit into your life with relative ease.*
*Notice I didn’t say it would be easy. At times, the concepts inside Convey can be uncomfortable or challenging to previous ways of being. This is what happens when you choose transformation and it’s why we gather together–so you have support when what you really might want is to chuck your computer out the window and swear at me.
This is a hands-on, experience focused on you and your ability to navigate whatever life throws your way.
"One cannot not communicate."
-GEORGE BERNARD SHAW
In order to communicate effectively, we have to be aware of what’s going on under the surface. Otherwise, it’s likely we’re not communicating what we think we are. Inside Convey, we dive deep (SCUBA certification not required).
You're invited to join me inside the collective
Choose Your Plan
MONTH-TO-MONTH
$397
$297
/ Month
All about the flexibility?
This plan may be the best for you.
YEARLY
$3970
$2970
/ Annually
All about the best value?
This plan may be the best for you.
Here’s the scoop on pricing…
Joining The Convey Collective will normally be $397/month. To celebrate it’s birth and to honor the people who say yes from the get-go, the current pricing is $297/month or $2970/year. Annual Collective members get 2 months free and some extra invites on the inside.
No false scarcity, doors aren’t closing in 2 days and 3 hours–as it stands the doors will stay open until we hit the sweet spot number of Collective members, but pricing can go up at any time. So don’t wait to join us because I’m so excited to meet you on the inside!
Lingering Questions?
Here are some answers to wrap them up better than a present. 🎀
What happens when I sign up?
You'll get an email from me with info to sign into our Collective community. Once you get there, you'll watch a quick welcome video that explains next steps and what's ready for you to explore.
Can I join if I live outside the United States?
Yes! If you have internet, you can access everything no matter where you live,
What's the time commitment?
Gatherings take place 4 times throughout the month. Our calendar is currently scheduled 3 months out and you'll have immediate access to the dates and times when you join. These calls are up to 90 minutes. Outside of the gatherings, the time commitment is up to you. I suggest spending 15 min a day engaged in one of the activities or reflection prompts but as you’ll see, the goal is for the concepts to begin to weave naturally into your life as part of a practice in how you naturally operate.
Will I get to come off mute during the calls?
Yes! These gatherings are live and your participation (if you so choose) is part of the experience.
What if I want to cancel?
You can cancel your month-to-month membership at any time with 15 days notice. I’m a small business and ask for this courtesy for planning purposes and so we can better manage the group size.
When you cancel an annual plan, your plan will not renew at the end of the year and you will be able to enjoy the benefits of the membership until your renewal date.
What's your refund policy?
There is a strict no refund policy for any plan. This is why the month-to-month plan is offered. Come enjoy for a month and if you decide this container isn’t what you’re looking for right now there’s no obligation to continue. Please note that if you cancel your plan and wish to return new member pricing will no longer apply.
If I paid for the whole year and need to leave can I get a refund?
If you pre-pay for the annual plan, you're responsible for the full-term and no refund will be given for remaining months. If you decide to cancel your annual renewal, you'll retain access through the end of your year.
What's the best way to cook broccoli?
Roasting it at 400 with garlic, olive oil, salt, and pepper. Sprinkle with Parmesan after. I love to cook and can’t resist making vegetables more enticing—kind of like communication and transformation in general.
Will this change my life?
Unlike many pages I will never say this will change your life because that is up to you. However, I will say with absolute certainty that this has the potential to change your life by transforming how you think, feel, process, and intentionally craft everything in your life. I'm obsessed with finding ways to make choosing transformation palatable and expanding your influence through effective communication and that’s baked into everything you’ll find inside Convey.
Will this make me more money?
I believe that more money and outward success is a by product of letting our most authentic selves free in the world. Convey helps you do that so it’s highly likely it becomes easy to translate that to more money. Plus, I have years as a copywriter and brand strategist under my belt so during coaching calls I have the ability to see possibility for money leaps and then we work to help you get there.
Will this make my relationship with my partner better?
Yes, absolutely!
How do I access everything?
You'll have access to everything The Convey Collective in our community hub. You'll also be able to access everything from our app. So phone or browser, The Convey Collective goes with you wherever you are.
Have a question I didn’t answer? Let’s talk.
“Working with Alyssa has not just changed my mind and poor habits in variety of behaviors I grew up with, it helped me become more emotionally aware of the triggers I had that I repressed for so long, that I never faced or overcame.
With her practices, methods, and tools, I have learned various ways to reframe my problems, look at problems as challenges, and openly admit when something isn’t clear. I admit it is still a work in progress in various areas, however without her, I would still be repeating the same issues over again and expecting a different result. The actual definition of insanity.
I highly recommend Alyssa in all of the obstacles we face. Whether it be childhood trauma or adult stresses and struggles, to today’s relationships with ourselves or our parents or partners. I couldn’t have improved or continually moved forward to improve without Alyssa being the woman that she is as well as being the best coach and teacher that is.”
DANIEL R.
You might be curious about the woman behind Convey
Hi, I'm Alyssa.
I joke that I was born out of a social science love triangle having a Bachelor’s in Psychology with a minor in Sociology, and a Masters in Human Communication. But my obsession with human behavior didn’t stop there, I also went on to become a Master Life Coach and Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming, as well as a practitioner of The Feminine Wholeness Method™.
After countless hours helping people convey their message and turn up the volume on their essence, I created Convey to help seekers like you flourish in your communication.
What I create and share inside Convey comes from walking a journey back to myself after I’d been told over and over to convey a different image–to be the “Good Girl,” to not ruffle any feathers, and to be the smart one. Oh and I was totally shit at boundaries which led me to saying yes when I really wanted to say no more times than I can count.
It’s practical wisdom to unlock your most authentic self because from that place your communication becomes clearer than vodka and you begin to powerfully ask for whatever you desire and create a life beyond your wildest dreams.